Dating: (un)written rules to follow

Rule number one: be yourself on a date, no matter what happens.

Make it your clear goal and the priority to remain yourself. Dating and especially online dating at the free dating websites is notoriously known for making people different, and in this case it means that online communication usually make people pretend some other personalities. Looking worse than the photo in your profile is a minor drawback that actually doesn’t matter much, but being a totally different person in real life, no matter worse or even better than you want to seem on the web may turn out to be a real problem. Why? Simply because the majority of people use to appreciate frankness and sincerity in relationships. So learn how to cultivate the sense of self-esteem and not make the people you are dating expect too much from you or think that you’re someone else – let them know the real you, the best of you only.

Rule number two or master the art of communication

Communication is meant to be used to establish all the possible kinds of contacts between people. In its nature, communication is the strongest weapon or sharpest tool for creating the cozy little world for two people only on the planet, helping us to realize all our dreams. Without openness for the words, discreet and direct communication, two people can’t be called true partners in romance. So say goodbye to and forget about the half-words, lies and ambiguities in your relationships – so make it clear.

Rule number three or pay attention to compromise

It is almost impossible to imagine the aforementioned communication skills without the readiness to accept a compromise when needed. It is even a wider notion than you usually think. The matter is that dealing with some kinds of problems in life might enough need to think different, pushing the envelope and the to change for the person you but this will be a real helping hand if you want to build really strong and long-term commitment with someone. In other words, this kind of diplomacy and negotiation can be the key to your future. And don’t forget about the things like respect to each other, daily appreciation, reciprocity and kindness as any serious relationship needs and requires much efforts aimed at cultivating them.

Rule number four or dating is created for fun

Sad, but true: being mesmerized and entangled with popular psychological theories on the nature of dating and the rest of such stuff, people these days often forget about the purpose of dating as such. Having fun together with a person you like – what can be more simple and natural? Enjoying every moment of your life (and creating those best moments for someone) is truly a unique chance for starting out relationships, getting closer and coming together.