From despair to big love…

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I would never believe that the same can happen to somebody, especially to me!

Actually it happened approximately three years ago. I was thirty one years old with two children of three and five years old. My husband died because of car accident and that was the worst time that I had ever had in my life.

The pain and desperation were the main feelings for me that time. Though all my relatives and all my friends supported me, nothing could make me feel a little bit better. Only my kids gave me the hope to live.

So, after a year of living the life of the whole pain, grief and despair I decided to find a job. I felt that the job should help me to “wake up” again and start my life from the beginning. The job was very interesting. I worked for the newspaper as a journalist and I was fully engaged in my occupation.

One day I’ve got a task to write the article about online dating websites. In order to understand the whole world of dating online I signed up for free at Chemistry.com

Actually, I’ve got a lot of fun that time, because that was very intriguing. So, then I created my own profile in a proper way to get more responses. In reality, my main purpose was to start talking with someone and get known the online dating world better.

My life changed

After two weeks of ineffective “operation”, I decided to act and encouraged myself to go through a huge number of profiles to choose someone to send the first email. And I’ve met him. As for me he looked like an intelligent and handsome man. It was very surprising for me as I thought that online dating is not the most appropriate way to meet people and start some relationships.

So, I was the first to write email. He answered me in a very polite way. Then we started our conversation. I don’t know why, but I didn’t say him any word about my “secret mission”. After a week I finished my article about dating online and my last word I wrote was late at night. After a cup of tea I couldn’t struggle with my desire to see if he was still online. And yes, he was. We were chatting until the time I had to wake up to go for a work. And I understood that my life will never be the same.

Next day I run to my home getting my children from the school and kindergarten in order to talk to him again. I remember that moment when he very cautiously asked me to go out with him. It was our first and unforgettable date. He was charming and I felt that he was very happy to be with me. After three months of dating we decided to get married and live together. Now we are waiting for the third child and we are very happy with it!