First date: physical constituents

Let’s say you have already arranged your date with a girl you met online at one of the best online dating sites. OK, you even know where to go together to make it a nice first date, moreover, you know what to ask her about and what to tell her about yourself. Great. But what about the physical contact besides some chemistry between you? It is no less important on the first date.

Making your first physical contact with her

Actually, there are many ways of doing that during the first date. But the first thing you should remember about is that before you think about physical contact with her is being a real gentleman, creating the necessary atmosphere and picking out the right moments needed for any seemingly accidental touch or a kiss.

Basically, you will understand yourself when there’s the right moment for a physical contact. For example, if your date is somewhere in a park, don’t forget that you can always hold her by the hand as you are having a walk. If she doesn’t shy away at once, this is a good sign she’s interested in your next steps.

Kissing on your first date

Kissing is definitely the area upon which men and women usually agree in most surveys about the first date scenarios, with 98 percent of men and 94 percent of women saying that they would kiss on the first date. As you see, kissing turns out to be not only appropriate but also desirable.

Act almost the same way as in case with touching or hugging her. Any time you recognize the opportunity presents itself, try to give her a casual kiss on the cheek. Watch her reaction – if she seems to like your kiss, then you are lucky to have a girl on your first date, who is interested in you. And if no – then your date is definitely going the wrong way.

Perfect kiss means perfect date, right?

The kiss she won’t forget is needed if you want to continue dating her. But how should you make it perfect? Having the right timing – right, but what else?

First of all, be mindful that leaning in for the first kiss in public might not be the best idea. The attitude towards public affection of hers is something that can potentially lead to many awkward situations. Who knows – may be the idea of kissing in public is something that she considers inappropriate, thus it can serve as a big turnoff for you and spoil the whole date.

Better wait until the very end of your date for the first kiss. You can always rely either on kissing her at the door, in the car – kissing women goodbye works perfectly in most cases, provided you had great time together and had much fun on your date, of course. Good luck!