Hugs and kisses: your short guide to

You might be probably surprised at how many people these days have managed to forget about the true value of a physical contact known as hugging, not to mention that kissing remains something like a high art for those men who get used to have dates at the online dating sites for men only. So, let’s try to clear up the air with some of the hugging and kissing aspects.

Step one. Hugging her. How to make it a romantic moment

What should we begin from? Well, first of all, make sure that you are both standing in a comfortable position. Strange as it may be, but some men surprisingly choose quite unexpected (and, frankly speaking, unsuccessful) moments and places to have a hug. That is why choose some appropriate background for hugging beforehand to create a romantic atmosphere. Falling leafage in the fall somewhere in the park, sightseeing platform against the scenery of a night city – there can be many good variants indeed.

Rule number two: don’t hurry up the whole process unless you want to spoil the romantic mood. Slow down if needed, you have got indeed plenty of time to make it the most unforgettable moment for both of you. There is no need to run anywhere – it’s all just about two of you so try to be firm yet gentle.

Next step: kissing her

Setting the necessary mood… If the kiss is supposed to come immediately after your romantic hug, there will be no serious problems about that for you. Of course provided you successfully coped with such a demanding challenge as hugs (just kidding, not meant to insult anyone). There are many unwritten rules concerning kisses, moreover, kissing as such deserves a separate treatise fully devoted to it. However, here we will try to stick to the most important kissing factors (some of them are still left forgotten very often).

For instance, holding a woman by the hand, putting an arm around her shoulders or gently hugging her by the back of her head would become additional points for a lot of men. Unfortunately, a lot of men concentrate more on the mouth of their partner rather than some other parts of her body. And how wrong they are…

Another important point to consider: never try to take the initiative during the kiss unless you meet a positive response from her side. We hope that it is clear enough why, despite the fact a lot of men gain the character of rude lovers, kissing like they are struggling for a draught of water or something even worse in comparison.

Basically, these are the main rules needed for people far over 18 or 21 that shouldn’t be forgotten about. Good luck!